I got a phone call from my son's teacher yesterday. Apparently he and a friend decided to write a mean valentine to a student in another class and making it from someone else so that that other person would get into trouble. I just don't know what to do with him. He is lying, stealing and being mean. My friend said that everytime he lies I should wash his mouth out with soap. I don't know if I could bring myself to do that. It might work though. I have tried everything else. She also suggested taping his fingers together on his right hand. These are both extreme things but I don't want him growing up being known as a theif and lier or a bully. That is not who he is. He is a good kid. I think that if either one of my children were to become bipolar it would be him. That scare me